Marry a Japanese Woman : Traditional Japanese Matchmaker

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Meet Japanese Women Coaching Session in Tokyo

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2016 Coaching Session for Japanese Women in TOKYO


One of our unique support systems is that we have a group coaching session for our Full Members.

Meet Japanese Women Coaching Session in Tokyo

We regularly have a workshop to learn how to succeed in international relationships. Since there are cultural differences between your culture and Japanese culture, there naturally some issues may occur when dating. Sharing about those issues and discussing the solutions will help all of our female members.


On my last visit to Tokyo, some of our female members came to our group coaching session in Tokyo. The topics we discussed were as follows.


  • How do I recognize that he is really marriage minded?
    We introduced the book, “Attached”, written by Dr. Amier. We read parts of it in English with some of our female members together and we learned on how to choose a man who is not just dating, but truly focused on marriage.


  • When dining at a nice restaurant, where is the best seat that she is supposed to sit at?
    She believes that there is a certain position that a woman is supposed to sit down at the table since she follows Japanese table manners. She felt uncomfortable at the first date since he didn’t care where she sat. After she shared her experience, we discussed creative solutions that our female members may follow to create positive outcomes. Common sense does not always work with table manners since everyone has different cultures and expectations.


  • How can I cultivate a long distance relationship?

This is the question almost all of our members have, and many of them are struggling. Hearing others’ opinions will help to find a solution.



By sharing our own experiences, we learn how to understand and relate to people who have different cultural backgrounds. We believe that this workshop will help our members to understand their partners more.


Usually, we host a workshop for our female members; however, if you can join us, it would be much more helpful. Male members are certainly welcome and encouraged to attend this workshop.

Meet Japanese Women Coaching Session in Tokyo


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Naoko Mastumoto

Founder and Personal Matchmaker at Traditional Japanese Matchmaker
Naoko Matsumoto is a certified personal matchmaker, founder and CEO of Traditional Japanese Matchmaker ( : the first international matchmaking company in Japan specializing in Japanese women. Naoko established TJM, a matchmaking company, in Minami Aoyama Tokyo in 1999. She has over 20 years experience in the matchmaking industry and in relationship coaching. TJM assists gentlemen all over the world and Japanese women in finding their right partners. TJM's mission is to connect happy men and women in order to create a global circle of happiness.


Matchmaking High Success Rate 1

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Matchmakers in Japan 2

Share.....FacebookTwitterLinkedinPinterestStumbleUponTumblremailOn July 1st and 2nd 2017, we had three events:  Make Happy Babies Seminar for Female Members  Finding Love Strategy Discussion for Female Members Only  Meet and Greet in Tokyo for Our Male and Female Members Over 2 days we had 3 events and over 100 people attended. And the events gave participants a big boost in learning about marriage and relationships.   1. Make Happy Babies Seminar for Female Members: We invited a doctor who is an obstetrician and a gynecologist to speak. He is also a specialist of infertility treatments and the author of a book about Infertility. ...

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