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An Important Topic that is Better to Discuss with Your Japanese Date at the Beginning of Communication If Your Purpose is Marriage


I came across the “March for Our Lives” at Baltimore City Hall last Saturday. There are many parents and children who are calling out for child safety in schools with no guns. As a mom of a 9 year old, I feel much sorrow for the children’s lives lost. And, I pray for peace of all children who are the victims of the gun shooting in Florida.


I do not want to discuss about political matters in the US, since I am an immigrant and I don’t have a vote in the US. However, as a matchmaker, I would like for you to discuss with your Japanese date the following things during the early stage of dating.


  1. If you have guns, please let her know how you treat them.
  2. If you have guns, please discuss about the necessity and safety.
  3. If you are not a gun holder, please discuss about how you stay safe.


Japanese women are from Japan which is one of the safest countries in the world. The crime rate in Japanese is very low. Having a gun is illegal in Japan, so only police officers or some specialists have guns. Japanese women don’t know that gun ownership in the US is very high and common, and would never believe that Americans would have them in their bedroom.


If she finds guns in your house when you are not there, without knowing that you have them, she will be very scared.


Discussing about this topic with your date during the early stage of communication may help her to feel more comfortable being with you.


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Naoko Mastumoto

Founder and Personal Matchmaker at Traditional Japanese Matchmaker
Naoko Matsumoto is a certified personal matchmaker, founder and CEO of Traditional Japanese Matchmaker ( : the first international matchmaking company in Japan specializing in Japanese women. Naoko established TJM, a matchmaking company, in Minami Aoyama Tokyo in 1999. She has over 20 years experience in the matchmaking industry and in relationship coaching. TJM assists gentlemen all over the world and Japanese women in finding their right partners. TJM's mission is to connect happy men and women in order to create a global circle of happiness.


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