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Are You Looking for Japanese Women in Japan or in Your Local Area?


We are offering Free Preliminary Consultations for everyone who is interested in marrying a Japanese woman. Wherever you are, we are happy to schedule a consultation for you either by ZOOM online or a meeting in person in New York or New Jersey.  Also, we are planning to meet clients in DC in the future.


“Are you looking for Japanese women in Japan or in your local area?”

This is the first question we ask new clients during their Preliminary Consultation.

We understand that many of you want to meet Japanese women in your local area. It is easy for you to date with her often and you will be able to get to know her more in a short amount of time. 

However, we highly recommend that you consider meeting Japanese women in Japan instead. Meeting Japanese women in Japan makes it a lot easier for you to find the right person for you if your objective is “marriage”.

Here are some reasons.

  1. Japanese Women in Japan are Authentic and More Traditional.
  2. Japanese Women in Japan Want to Meet You.
  3. You Will Have More Women to Choose From When You Visit Japan.
  4. Japanese Women in Japan Will Appreciate Your Effort of Traveling and Meeting Them in Japan.
  1. Japanese Women in Japan are Authentic and More Traditional.
    You may feel Japanese women in Japan are more traditional. They are not that westernized. I have met and consulted with many single Japanese women in New York City. I feel that they are strong like western women. They have become more unbreakable and tougher in order to survive in the US. They say their opinions straightforwardly and clearly. It may be good for them. On the other hand, you may feel Japanese women in Japan are soft spoken and mild mannered. You will feel that when visit Japan.
  1. Japanese Women in Japan Want to Meet You.
    You may say that there are many Japanese women in NYC. That is right. Japanese women in NYC are highly driven to succeed and therefore typically earn over 100,000 USD, and they want to meet men who are very successful and earn more than they do. Since they are young and beautiful they can meet gentlemen in NYC easily and enjoy dating and the single nightlife. Their expectations toward men is super high. So, unless you are super successful, have a high income, and live in NYC, your chances of meeting a young and beautiful Japanese woman in the US are very slim. On the other hand, Japanese women in Japan want to meet you because you are different from Japanese men. If you open the door for her and respect her, she will feel so happy because Japanese men don’t do this for Japanese women in Japan. Japanese women in Japan do not have high expectations like Japanese women in NYC.

3.You Will Have More Women to Choose From When You Visit Japan.
How many Japanese women are in your local area? Only in NYC are there many young and beautiful single Japanese women but they are often hard to meet as I discussed above. In your local area there are most likely not many young and beautiful single Japanese women. Besides, if your selection standards for Japanese women are very high, it will not be easy for you to find one in your local area who meets all of your standards. 

A gentleman from Alaska recently married one of our female members. It took him just a few months to get married since he signed up for our membership. If he had been looking for a Japanese woman in his local area in Alaska, it may have taken him more than 100 years to meet the right person. Since he signed up for our service and he was decisive, he was able to be successful in a short amount of time.


4. Japanese Women in Japan Will Appreciate Your Effort of Traveling and Meeting Them in Japan.
Many Japanese women feel more secure when men come to meet them in Japan for the first meeting. Japanese women believe that you are very serious about your commitment to marriage. Men who just want to date don’t make big commitments. Japanese women appreciate and trust you much more when they see that you are making a big effort to travel to Japan.

From Thanksgiving to New Year’s Day many male members will visit Japan. This is the busiest season of the year for our matchmakers, but we are always happy to assist you in finding your ideal Japanese woman! We appreciate that both our male and female members are marriage minded and their commitments are high toward achieving happy marriages.


If you thought that you will just look for Japanese women in your local area only, we ask you to please think a bit more open minded and visit Japan to meet Japanese women. You will be inspired when you meet traditional Japanese women in Japan! We can help!


Naoko Matsumoto Traditional Japanese Matchmaker






Dating and Matchmaking Service for Singles Professionals and Japanese Women Established in 1999. We have been working as a professional Japanese matchmakers for 20 years. We look forward to assisting you in finding your Japanese wife. Please click below to make an appointment for a Free Skype consultation if you are truly interested. We are happy to make an appointment with you after you have created your own profile.

Naoko Matsumoto
CEO and Your Personal Matchmaker
Traditional Japanese Matchmaker


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Singles Party in Tokyo on Nov 2nd, 2019
We will host a Singles Party in San Fransisco, so you can meet many beautiful Japanese women in SF in one day. Also, we can arrange individual meetings for you. I am sure this is a great opportunity for you if you really want to marry a Japanese woman within a year!


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Naoko Mastumoto

Founder and Personal Matchmaker at Traditional Japanese Matchmaker
Naoko Matsumoto is a certified personal matchmaker, founder and CEO of Traditional Japanese Matchmaker ( : the first international matchmaking company in Japan specializing in Japanese women. Naoko established TJM, a matchmaking company, in Minami Aoyama Tokyo in 1999. She has over 20 years experience in the matchmaking industry and in relationship coaching. TJM assists gentlemen all over the world and Japanese women in finding their right partners. TJM's mission is to connect happy men and women in order to create a global circle of happiness.


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