Marry a Japanese Woman : Traditional Japanese Matchmaker

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Matchmaking Japan High Success Rate

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Why We Have a High Success Rate


Often, we receive long emailed letters from our female members. They write about their relationships with gentlemen they are currently corresponding with. Sometimes, they write letters that are over 3 pages in length. The letters are usually about either having great relationships or facing difficulties in their relationships. We appreciate that they share in detail what is going on with their male partners since doing so helps us as matchmakers to better understand how they feel and how to meet their needs. After reading letters from our female members, we sincerely reply with encouragement, tips, and certain advice, since we ...

What is The Best Way To Meet Japanese Women?

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What is The Best Way to Meet Japanese Women: Speed Dating, Small Intimate Meetup, or Individual Meeting?


In order to meet Japanese women, there are some different ways we recommend: Speed Dating, Small Intimate Meetup, or Individual meeting. Each of these ways has its advantages and disadvantages.   Speed Dating: If you want to meet as many women at one time, joining a speed dating event is the best way. It is a great opportunity for anyone who wants to meet different Japanese women. However, it is not easy to learn about one person deeply since only very short times are allowed with each person. Besides, if you are an introverted type, it may be hard to ...

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How We Help Prevent Religious Conflicts with Japanese Women


The “OBON Holiday” is currently taking place in Japan this week. Like the “Thanksgiving” holiday in the US, the “OBON Holiday” is one of the largest holidays in Japan. Japanese people usually take several days off from work and go visit their parents or go on vacation. What is “OBON”? It is a Buddhist event that believes that souls of our ancestors come to say hello to us from the heaven during OBON week (Aug 13-16). This concept may be hard for westerners to understand if they are not followers of Buddhism. However, most Japanese people believe in “REINCARNATION” ...

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Exclusive Singles Party for Gentlemen and Japanese Women at a Private Location Overlooking the Hudson River


We are planning to have a small meetup party at my friend’s house in NJ along the Hudson River. It is located about 30 minutes from Port Authority via NJ Transit Bus. DATE: Sat. Sep 15th 2018 TIME:1pm – 15 pm (12:30pm OPEN) PLACE: TBA WHO: This event is open to our members or newly joining members. I want to meet Japanese Women! Unlike our usual Speed Dating Event, this meetup is designed to be a small size: 3 to 3, 4 to 4, or 5 to 5 guests. We have kept this event small in order to provide a better atmosphere ...

Japanese Women in TOKYO

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Japanese Women I Met in Japan: One Reason that Our Female Members Are Better


As you may know, it is the hottest summer ever recorded in Japan. The temperature is more than the body temperature almost every day, and it doesn’t get lower than 25 Celsius (77 Fahrenheit), even at night. Although I love summer, it was too hot! I just returned from Japan and I am enjoying the cooler weather in Baltimore now. It feels like fall weather since it is raining a lot and I already miss summer in Japan! While staying in Japan for about 6 weeks, I met many Japanese women. I met some of our female members who had ...

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2018 Singles Event in Japan Was A Great Success!


  TJM’s 2018 annual events in Tokyo were all completed last weekend. In total, there were more than 120 attendees at all three events (including two seminars for single Japanese women) in two days. Attendees were from Osaka, Nagoya and Tokyo in Japan, Korea, the east and west coasts of the US, and even from a European country. We appreciate all of the single men and Japanese women who attended our events. They really want to meet the right person. Thank you very much!!! Here are some photos from our 2018 events in TOKYO! Regarding our Singles event, 12 men ...

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Events Tips for Men TOKYO

What’s The Best Date for the Next Singles Event in Japan in 2019?

We just closed the event attendee list for the Meet and Greet with Japanese Women in Tokyo 2018, and we are preparing for this event that is happening next weekend. At this event we will host 3 separate events in 2 days, including a singles party and 2 special seminars for Japanese women. There will be over 120 people joining our event and seminars this year. Regarding the singles party, 13 male members and 24 female members, a total of 37 male and female members will join us. Most of the male members who are attending are coming from outside ...

Japanese wife visiting Japan

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Do You Accept Your Japanese Wife Visiting Japan at Least Once a Year?


Summer vacation time is coming! Did you know many Japanese wives visit Japan during the summer vacation time with their children? It’s a huge exodus! I understand that some husbands worry that their Japanese wives will not come back to them and they don’t accept their wives visiting Japan every year. However, if you and your wife trust each other, you can discuss it with her and come to a mutual agreement. There are both advantages and disadvantages of visiting Japan each year, so let’s see….. Advantages: Japanese public schools accept your children as a student in their classes during ...

Books Tips for Men

The 100 Important Questions to Ask Before Getting Married


Getting married is one of life’s biggest changes. Even though you have found a nice Japanese woman and you and she are getting along, you may still be unsure if she is the right person to marry. Some people say that taking more time to learn about each other may help. The question is how long you need to understand her or when is the right time to ask her, “Will you marry me?” I would like to recommend this book, The Hard Questions: 100 Essential Questions to Ask Before You Say “I Do” by Susan Piver. This book is ...

Japanese women look VERY young even when they are over 50 years old. I think I am an example of how Japanese women stay younger.

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Japanese Women Look VERY Young


I had my 50th birthday in NYC last weekend. When I was a child, there was a magazine for teenagers, called “Seventeen”, and I felt that becoming 17 years old sounded so adult. Without realizing my age, I have been living for half a century and I still feel like I am a teenager. And, I still lead an active lifestyle and I like to try new things. Also, I appreciate that my husband always supports me in what I am doing.   Recently, we had younger and younger Japanese women who want to become our members. Some of them ...

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