Marry a Japanese Woman : Traditional Japanese Matchmaker

The Best Dating and Matchmaking Service for Single Professionals and Japanese Women. Tokyo, Singapore, San Francisco, Los Angeles & New York.

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Jaoanese Women learn English

Tips for Men

How to Deal with the “LANGUAGE BARRIER”


If you would like to marry a Japanese woman, you will need to consider the “LANGUAGE BARRIER”. Some male clients ask us if we have Japanese women who can speak fluent English. Yes, we have Japanese women whose English skills are excellent. However, all our female members are Japanese whose first language is Japanese.  English is their second language, so there may still be words or phrases that they do not understand. In order to cope with the “LANGUAGE BARRIER”, there are many things you can do. It is not only up to her, rather, both of you can support ...

What You Can Do to Find a Japanese Woman Before the New Year Starts

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What You Can Do to Find a Japanese Woman Before the New Year Starts


There are less than 30 days to complete 2018, but there is still time to meet Japanese women before the year ends. In December, you may feel that the days pass so quickly and you must be very busy for both work and meeting family and friends to celebrate the holidays. At the same time, you may think that you do not want to spend the same lonely holiday repeatedly every year. For us at Traditional Japanese Matchmaker the holidays is the busiest time of the year since many male members take time off from work and visit Japan to ...

How to understand Japanese women

Events New York Tips for Men

How to Understand Japanese Women: Imago Method


My friend Satomi and her husband Greg who live in NJ are going to host a workshop for International Couples in NYC on Dec. 9th 2018. Satomi is a Japanese woman and she is a Certified Imago Professional Facilitator. Greg is an American and he is a Certified Imago Therapist. Satomi and Greg followed Imago Method when they had issues in their relationship, which method allowed them to create a peaceful and supportive relationship. Imago method is very good for helping international couples learn how to live harmoniously. By following Imago method they found out how to understand each other ...

Thanks Giving with a Japanese woman

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Who Are You Celebrating Thanksgiving With?


Happy Thanksgiving!!!!!! The holiday season is coming! I hope that you are having a wonderful time on thanksgiving with your family and friends. I would like to share the story of my first thanksgiving in the US. It was 2004; I was a student of the University of Nevada in Las Vegas. At that time, I was single, and I didn’t have any family in the US. I didn’t even know what thanksgiving was and I had no idea about the American holidays at all. Someone said, “Nobody works on thanksgiving. They are all with their family.” I couldn’t believe ...

Singles Party in Tokyo Japan

Events Tips for Men TOKYO

2019 Tokyo Singles Party is Sat. July 6th!

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You may feel, “How early you decide!”, since we started planning for next year’s singles party in Tokyo more than 6 months ahead. The date is Sat. July 6th 2019. “Why do we decide so early?” Well, earlier is better for single men who live outside of Japan because they can make travel plans in order to meet single Japanese women. Especially, busy businessmen need to schedule their year at the beginning of the year or even earlier. We will announce more details when everything is set. FYI: Here is TJM’s Singles Party in 2018. Here is TJM’s Singles Party ...

young and beautiful Japanese Woman

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Do You Want to Marry a Young and Beautiful Japanese Woman?


“Do You Want to Marry a Young and Beautiful Japanese Woman?” Many of you may enthusiastically say, “YES!” We understand and respect your preferences and help you to search for the women you want to meet. And it is possible for you to marry a young and beautiful Japanese woman. However, the thing that we would like you to think about is that we are all aging. Your 30 year young Japanese wife is going to be 50 years old in 2038, and she is going to be 70 years old in 2058. This may be hard for some to ...

Marry a Japanese Womann: We Are Engaged!

Congratulations! Tips for Men

We Are Engaged! The Happiest Man and Japanese Woman Came to See Me in San Francisco: He Says “We couldn’t have found each other without you!”


On October 6th 2018, right before the Singles Wine Party in San Francisco began, one of our member couples visited me at a hotel in downtown San Francisco. They had just been engaged. He lives near San Francisco, and she visited him and they came to see me to say “Hello!” because they knew that I was visiting San Francisco to host our Singles Party. I had met her in Tokyo last July, but it was the first time that I had met him. However, I felt like I had known him for a long time since I had been ...

Japanese Women: Whay she is still sintle

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Why She is Still Single


“Why are you still single?” At their first meeting, some men may ask her this question. It may be hard for you to believe it when you meet a beautiful woman who is in her mid 30’s and has never been married. You may wonder what has she been doing or why no gentlemen has been interested in her. We understand that you ask the question: “Why are you still single?” to her in a positive way. However, for her this question may be a super tough question and it may hurt her feelings. Here are some of the obvious ...

Singles Party in Tokyo Japan

Tips for Men

Why He is Still Single


I am currently in Japan. There was an opportunity to participate in a big business meeting in TOKYO. There were over 200 Japanese business women in the meeting room. It was HOT! I was interested in one of the guest speakers, Mr. A, who is an internet marketer. He is especially good at Facebook marketing, and he teaches how to get 300 new potential clients every month by using Facebook with no cost. Mr. A used to work as a computer engineer in a big company in Japan. He had 500 co-workers in his company, and most of them were ...

The Secret of The Most Effective Way to Marry a Japanese Woman

Tips for Men

The Secret of The Most Effective Way to Marry a Japanese Woman


  Do you want to meet many Japanese women at one speed dating event or meet a few nice Japanese women individually? Some male clients may think that we are event planners since we have hosted speed dating events in Tokyo, Singapore, San Francisco, Los Angeles, and New York. We are NOT event planners. Rather, we are matchmakers. Our mission is to help you in finding your beautiful Japanese wife. Planning parties is really for our full members and we understand that everyone loves joining singles parties. We believe that attending parties brings you more opportunities to meet Japanese women, ...

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