Marry a Japanese Woman : Traditional Japanese Matchmaker

The Best Dating and Matchmaking Service for Single Professionals and Japanese Women. Tokyo, Singapore, San Francisco, Los Angeles & New York.

Attached Amir Levine M.D.

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Discover Your and Her Attachment Type to Find and Sustain LOVE


Luna and I went to the Matchmaking Institutes’ Conference in April. There were matchmakers and relationship coaches who came from all over the world and there were lectures on many different topics designed to develop coaching skills.


I was very impressed with one of the lectures titled “Attached” by Amir Levine, MD. He is a psychiatrist, neuroscientist and the author of the book “Attached.” In his study, people are categorized into three different attachment types “Secure”, “Anxious”, or “Avoidant” according to their human behavior and traits.


People are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner’s ability to love them back.


People equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.


People feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving.


Through my 16 year experience as a matchmaker, I have found that couples where both the man and woman are secure, relationships will go well. Anxious and Avoidant couples don’t work out. Many people who say I want to get marred but enjoy being single even though they are over 50 tend to be avoidant. I see avoidant type people in speed dating events or online dating since they do not expect to get married.



If you have been single for a long time, this book will help you to figure out your attachment type. If you meet a secure Japanese woman, you don’t have to struggle to create a better relationship and feel much more comfortable with your partner.


We will host a relationship coaching seminar for our female clients in TOKYO on July 4th: At the seminar, Japanese women can learn about attachment types, how to be secure, and how to find True LOVE.


We will also host a members’ only event on July 11th. If you are a Full Member, you are most welcome to join our members’ only event. During your stay in Japan, we are happy to arrange individual meetings with our female members.


We look forward to meeting with you in JULY!



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Naoko Mastumoto

Founder and Personal Matchmaker at Traditional Japanese Matchmaker
Naoko Matsumoto is a certified personal matchmaker, founder and CEO of Traditional Japanese Matchmaker ( : the first international matchmaking company in Japan specializing in Japanese women. Naoko established TJM, a matchmaking company, in Minami Aoyama Tokyo in 1999. She has over 20 years experience in the matchmaking industry and in relationship coaching. TJM assists gentlemen all over the world and Japanese women in finding their right partners. TJM's mission is to connect happy men and women in order to create a global circle of happiness.


Matchmaking High Success Rate 1

Share.....FacebookTwitterLinkedinPinterestStumbleUponTumblremailMost matchmaking services in the US or other western countries define their success based on the number of dates they have enabled.   The number of dates is most likely used as a barometer of their success due to the fact that this will be a much higher number than the number of marriages. This higher number will be more effective in their marketing campaigns than a lower number.   On the other end of the spectrum, the matchmaking industries in Japan count the number of couples that get married as a measure of their success. Obviously, it will take ...

Matchmakers in Japan 2

Share.....FacebookTwitterLinkedinPinterestStumbleUponTumblremailOn July 1st and 2nd 2017, we had three events:  Make Happy Babies Seminar for Female Members  Finding Love Strategy Discussion for Female Members Only  Meet and Greet in Tokyo for Our Male and Female Members Over 2 days we had 3 events and over 100 people attended. And the events gave participants a big boost in learning about marriage and relationships.   1. Make Happy Babies Seminar for Female Members: We invited a doctor who is an obstetrician and a gynecologist to speak. He is also a specialist of infertility treatments and the author of a book about Infertility. ...

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