Marry a Japanese Woman : Traditional Japanese Matchmaker

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Getting Love You Want


Getting the Love You Want


We would like to introduce the book “Getting the Love You Want” by Harville Hendrix PhD.

What is Imago Relationship Therapy?

As stated on the website below, “Imago Relationship Therapy was developed by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt in 1980, Imago Relationship Therapy is a form of relationship and couples therapy that focuses on relational counseling to transform any conflict between couples into opportunities for healing and growth.”

I met Satomi in NJ a few months ago. She is Japanese and her husband is American. Her husband works as a therapist, and he figured out that Imago Relationship Therapy is one of the greatest methods to help couples who have relationship issues.

Usually, relationship issues occur when men and women do not have conversations. Imago Relationship Therapy is based on conversation, and just having time to talk with your partner may help to solve many problems. Imago Relationship Therapy teaches you how to talk in a mutually beneficial way to others.

I started reading “Getting the Love You Want”. There is also the workbook to practice Imago Therapy with your partner. You and your partner can practice together. Of course, the best option is for you and your spouse to see an Imago Therapist in your local area. Seeing an Imago Therapist will help almost all couples to achieve a higher level of love and intimacy.

Getting Love You Want workbook

Getting Love You Want workbook

We also recommend for couples who are just dating or thinking about marriage to see an Imago Therapist. You may think that talking about couple therapy before getting married doesn’t make sense. However, reading this book “Getting the Love You Want” may help you to create a better relationship between you and your wife to be. Especially, if you are looking for a Japanese wife, there are cultural differences and language misunderstandings, and many more things to consider than communicating with women in your local area. Therefore, you may learn many great tips to use in your daily conversation with Japanese women.

Imago Methods are still new in Japan, and Satomi would like to introduce these methods to people in Japan. So I would like to support Satomi.

If you have read this book, “Getting the Love You Want” please share what you felt.

Japanese Matchmaker Naoko Matsumoto

Satomi and Naoko

We have been working as professional Japanese matchmakers for 18 years. We look forward to assisting you in finding your Japanese wife. Please click below to make an appointment for a Free Skype consultation if you are truly interested. We are happy to make an appointment with you after you have created your own profile.

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Naoko Mastumoto

Founder and Personal Matchmaker at Traditional Japanese Matchmaker
Naoko Matsumoto is a certified personal matchmaker, founder and CEO of Traditional Japanese Matchmaker ( : the first international matchmaking company in Japan specializing in Japanese women. Naoko established TJM, a matchmaking company, in Minami Aoyama Tokyo in 1999. She has over 20 years experience in the matchmaking industry and in relationship coaching. TJM assists gentlemen all over the world and Japanese women in finding their right partners. TJM's mission is to connect happy men and women in order to create a global circle of happiness.


Matchmaking High Success Rate 1

Share.....FacebookTwitterLinkedinPinterestStumbleUponTumblremailMost matchmaking services in the US or other western countries define their success based on the number of dates they have enabled.   The number of dates is most likely used as a barometer of their success due to the fact that this will be a much higher number than the number of marriages. This higher number will be more effective in their marketing campaigns than a lower number.   On the other end of the spectrum, the matchmaking industries in Japan count the number of couples that get married as a measure of their success. Obviously, it will take ...

Matchmakers in Japan 2

Share.....FacebookTwitterLinkedinPinterestStumbleUponTumblremailOn July 1st and 2nd 2017, we had three events:  Make Happy Babies Seminar for Female Members  Finding Love Strategy Discussion for Female Members Only  Meet and Greet in Tokyo for Our Male and Female Members Over 2 days we had 3 events and over 100 people attended. And the events gave participants a big boost in learning about marriage and relationships.   1. Make Happy Babies Seminar for Female Members: We invited a doctor who is an obstetrician and a gynecologist to speak. He is also a specialist of infertility treatments and the author of a book about Infertility. ...


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