Marry a Japanese Woman : Traditional Japanese Matchmaker

The Best Dating and Matchmaking Service for Single Professionals and Japanese Women. Tokyo, Singapore, San Francisco, Los Angeles & New York.

Getting Married to a Japanese Woman

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How Decisive Members Get Married to Japanese Women in a Short Time with TJM’s Expert Guidance


“We are engaged!”

Last week, we received messages from two new, happy couples. During Golden Week, a big holiday in Japan, they had a wonderful time together and they have already decided to marry.


In both cases, they made a  big decision, i.e. “We are engaged!”, within 6 months. You may think it is hard to believe, but it always happens. There was no need to introduce many Japanese women to these men since these men were decisive and ready to marry. In these cases, we introduced to them only a few Japanese women and that was all it took. Some people may say, “I don’t want to make mistakes, so I want to meet as many Japanese women as possible”. However, in our experience, we have seen that the male members who want to meet as many female members as possible do not succeed since they are never satisfied. Remember, it is not always necessary to meet many Japanese women. We believe that quality counts more than quantity.   You only need to meet a few sincere and highly committed women.


There are some reasons that we are proud of our female women’s “Quality” as follows.


  1. Most of our female members do not use online dating websites. They may have experienced it in the past, but they all said, they are afraid of meeting someone whom they don’t know and those websites are hard to trust. They say they don't want to waste their time. Our female members also do not want to meet gentlemen who are playing the online dating game.  
  2. Most of our female members are not the type of person who drink at a bar or dance at a club. They are more traditional, and you cannot meet them in Roppongi on midnight weekends.
  3. Most of our female members have experience studying or working abroad. They are used to living outside of Japan and are ready to relocate. They also have more English skills than your average Japanese person.
  4. All of our female members are looking for a lifelong partner. We spend much time having interviews with each Japanese female member candidate to investigate if they are ready for and are committed to a happy marriage. So, we are sure that all of our female members’ purpose for registering with us is to sincerely find a lifelong partner.
  5. We focus on selecting only women who have nice personalities, exhibiting such qualities as politeness, compassion, and responsibility, as well as, outer beauty. We sometimes hesitate to have some Japanese women as a member if we think that they are not eligible based on their personalities even if they are beautiful.

Meeting a few Japanese women who are sincerely seeking marriage, based on TJM matchmakers expert guidance, will help you find your ideal wife and prevent wasted time searching for the perfect wife by meeting many women. Our experienced matchmaker’s screening process is top notch, and you are more likely to find your ideal Japanese women in a short time with TJM. Our highly rated matchmaking process is also the key to a happy marriage.


We schedule a Free Consultation if you really want to marry a Japanese woman within a year. Also, we recommend joining our annual Singles Event in Tokyo! 


Meet Japanese Women Speed Dating Singles Event in Tokyo Japan





Singles Party in Tokyo on July 6th, 2019

If you haven’t planned to visit Japan, we recommend planning on July 6th, 2019. We will host a singles Party in Tokyo, so you can meet many beautiful Japanese women in Tokyo in one day. Also, we can arrange individual meetings for you. I am sure this is a great opportunity for you if you really want to marry a Japanese woman within a year!

Plese click to signup for TJM's Singles Party in TOKYO 2019


Naoko Matsumoto Traditional Japanese Matchmaker






Dating and Matchmaking Service for Single Professionals and Japanese Women Established in 1999
We have been working as professional Japanese matchmakers for 18 years. We look forward to assisting you in finding your Japanese wife. Please click below to make an appointment for a Free Skype consultation if you are truly interested. We are happy to make an appointment with you after you have created your own profile.

Naoko Matsumoto
CEO and Your Personal Matchmaker
Traditional Japanese Matchmaker


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Naoko Mastumoto

Founder and Personal Matchmaker at Traditional Japanese Matchmaker
Naoko Matsumoto is a certified personal matchmaker, founder and CEO of Traditional Japanese Matchmaker ( : the first international matchmaking company in Japan specializing in Japanese women. Naoko established TJM, a matchmaking company, in Minami Aoyama Tokyo in 1999. She has over 20 years experience in the matchmaking industry and in relationship coaching. TJM assists gentlemen all over the world and Japanese women in finding their right partners. TJM's mission is to connect happy men and women in order to create a global circle of happiness.


Matchmaking High Success Rate 1

Share.....FacebookTwitterLinkedinPinterestStumbleUponTumblremailMost matchmaking services in the US or other western countries define their success based on the number of dates they have enabled.   The number of dates is most likely used as a barometer of their success due to the fact that this will be a much higher number than the number of marriages. This higher number will be more effective in their marketing campaigns than a lower number.   On the other end of the spectrum, the matchmaking industries in Japan count the number of couples that get married as a measure of their success. Obviously, it will take ...

Matchmakers in Japan 2

Share.....FacebookTwitterLinkedinPinterestStumbleUponTumblremailOn July 1st and 2nd 2017, we had three events:  Make Happy Babies Seminar for Female Members  Finding Love Strategy Discussion for Female Members Only  Meet and Greet in Tokyo for Our Male and Female Members Over 2 days we had 3 events and over 100 people attended. And the events gave participants a big boost in learning about marriage and relationships.   1. Make Happy Babies Seminar for Female Members: We invited a doctor who is an obstetrician and a gynecologist to speak. He is also a specialist of infertility treatments and the author of a book about Infertility. ...

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