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How to Marry a Japanese Woman who Has a High Career

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How to Marry a Japanese Woman who Has a High Career


Recently, one of our female members, who is a lawyer, renewed her membership. She has been searching for her right person who resides outside of Japan for a long time. However, she has many concerns about marriage. There are her primary concerns.

  1. She wants to meet a man who earns more than she earns now.
  2. She wants to marry, but she is afraid of losing the job she has now.
  3. She wants to get married and have children but thinking about #1 and #2 causes her much anxiety and she is unable to make a decision.
    1.  She wants to meet a man who earns more than she earns now.
      Since she earns a lot of money, she wants to meet a man whose annual income is more than 200,000 USD. We understand that she doesn't want to downgrade her lifestyle that she has now. However, if she says his annual income is the most important criteria, no man will be interested in her.
    2.  She wants to marry, but she is afraid of losing the job she has now.
      She has a great career in Japan, but she knows that she is going to lose her job if she is going to leave Japan and start a new life in her husband's country. If she wants to work as a lawyer in his country, she will have to get new training and certifications. This means that she will have to spend a lot of time and money in order to maintain her career in another country. 
    3. She wants to get married and have children but thinking about #1 and #2 causes her much anxiety and she is unable to make a decision.
      Since she has a great job and earns a high annual income, she has not been able to make any marriage decisions that would jeopardize her career. Quitting her job and preparing to relocate is not an easy decision for her. It means losing her great career and high income. Getting married to a man outside of Japan is jumping into an uncertain world with no guarantees. Since she knows that marriage would result in many changes, she is afraid to take a chance when she is introduced to a nice gentleman.

We have met many advanced careered Japanese women who are holding similar conflicts. We persuade these kinds of women by telling them, “If you want to get married, you may have to compromise on some of your goals. Don’t wait for a perfect man for a long time! Just try to meet a nice man and take the next step!”


When women spend too much time with no action, they get older and lose the opportunity to have children. Men who want to have children prefer to meet Japanese women under 35 y.o.


We have many Japanese women members who have advanced careers such as doctors, pharmacists, financial consultants, and so on. If you prefer to meet a high careered Japanese woman, it is wise to show her that she doesn’t have to worry about her financial future when she meets you. Please let her know that you earn a high income and can support the family by yourself, if necessary. Knowing this will lessen her anxiety and stress level in taking a chance to get married and move to a new country where she does not know if she can continue her high paying career. Creating a harmonious family means supporting each other. By doing so, you and she will be on the same team and can walk together forever.


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Dating and Matchmaking Service for Singles Professionals and Japanese Women Established in 1999. We have been working as professional Japanese matchmakers for 20 years. We look forward to assisting you in finding your Japanese wife. Please click below to make an appointment for a Free Skype consultation if you are truly interested. We are happy to make an appointment with you after you have created your own profile.

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Naoko Mastumoto

Founder and Personal Matchmaker at Traditional Japanese Matchmaker
Naoko Matsumoto is a certified personal matchmaker, founder and CEO of Traditional Japanese Matchmaker ( : the first international matchmaking company in Japan specializing in Japanese women. Naoko established TJM, a matchmaking company, in Minami Aoyama Tokyo in 1999. She has over 20 years experience in the matchmaking industry and in relationship coaching. TJM assists gentlemen all over the world and Japanese women in finding their right partners. TJM's mission is to connect happy men and women in order to create a global circle of happiness.


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