Marry a Japanese Woman : Traditional Japanese Matchmaker

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We Are Married

Tips for Japanese Women We are Engaged

We Are Married! – He Keeps Giving Her Love, and She Believes in Him!


We Are Married

Right after reporting about “We are engaged!” in our newsletter last week, one of our couple members contacted me by Skype in order to show me their marriage ring, and said, “We are married!”


It was almost midnight at that time, and I was about to go to bed since I was leaving for Japan the next day at 6 am. However, I was so glad to see their happy faces on Skype before I flew to Japan.


I am sure that he read our newsletter and knew that other members were engaged. As a matchmaker, this is a precious moment when we can confirm that our members’ happiness is spreading out all over universe.


I would like to share the story of them since it may happen to you, too.


A few months ago, she was still afraid of leaving Japan even though she had gotten a fiancé visa and a ticket to fly to start her new life with him in a new country. It may be called “marriage blues.” She was not sure if what she was doing was correct.


Through our many years of international matchmaking experience, we understand her fear since it is quite common. Leaving Japan and getting married to a man who lives in a different country that she is not familiar with is an enormous decision for her. If her fiancé lived in the same town that she lives, things would be easier. However, in an international marriage, things are more complicated. She cannot always see her friends and family when she wants.


She just needs someone to reassure her.


Fortunately, this gentleman gives her encouragement with his positive words. His loving words help to lessen her anxieties. As a matchmaker, I had conversations individually with him and with her. I also sent them encouragement through prayer.


Finally, she decided to start her new life with her fiancé. Her fear melted away because of his loving support and she believes in their future together.


I would like to send them a J-Pop music titled “Ai Wa Katsu.”  It means Love can always win. I am happy for them!


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Naoko Mastumoto

Founder and Personal Matchmaker at Traditional Japanese Matchmaker
Naoko Matsumoto is a certified personal matchmaker, founder and CEO of Traditional Japanese Matchmaker ( : the first international matchmaking company in Japan specializing in Japanese women. Naoko established TJM, a matchmaking company, in Minami Aoyama Tokyo in 1999. She has over 20 years experience in the matchmaking industry and in relationship coaching. TJM assists gentlemen all over the world and Japanese women in finding their right partners. TJM's mission is to connect happy men and women in order to create a global circle of happiness.


Matchmaking High Success Rate 1

Share.....FacebookTwitterLinkedinPinterestStumbleUponTumblremailMost matchmaking services in the US or other western countries define their success based on the number of dates they have enabled.   The number of dates is most likely used as a barometer of their success due to the fact that this will be a much higher number than the number of marriages. This higher number will be more effective in their marketing campaigns than a lower number.   On the other end of the spectrum, the matchmaking industries in Japan count the number of couples that get married as a measure of their success. Obviously, it will take ...

Matchmakers in Japan 2

Share.....FacebookTwitterLinkedinPinterestStumbleUponTumblremailOn July 1st and 2nd 2017, we had three events:  Make Happy Babies Seminar for Female Members  Finding Love Strategy Discussion for Female Members Only  Meet and Greet in Tokyo for Our Male and Female Members Over 2 days we had 3 events and over 100 people attended. And the events gave participants a big boost in learning about marriage and relationships.   1. Make Happy Babies Seminar for Female Members: We invited a doctor who is an obstetrician and a gynecologist to speak. He is also a specialist of infertility treatments and the author of a book about Infertility. ...

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