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Will You Keep Loving a Japanese Woman Even as She Is Getting Older?

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Will You Keep Loving a Japanese Woman Even as She Is Getting Older?


Chisato Moritaka


This is an example of Japanese pop music that was popular about 30 years ago. The artist’s name is Chisato Moritaka, and the title of this song is “Watashi Ga Obasan ni Nattemo”. She sang this song when she was in her 20’s. At that time, she was single, and this song was a huge hit because many young and single Japanese women’s empathized with it.


“Watashi ga Obasan ni Nattemo” when translated means “Will you keep loving me even as I am getting older?” In this song, she asks the man she loves some questions.

  • Will you take me to Saipan for a vacation even as I get older and I cannot wear sexy bikinis?
  • Will you take me to the disco even as I get older and I cannot wear the mini skirt?
  • Will you take me on a drive even as I get older?
  • Will you keep loving me even as I get older?

In this song, she sang that she is afraid of becoming older. Since she knows that her boyfriend likes young and beautiful women, she doesn't want him to move on to younger and more attractive women as she gets older.


She really loves him, and she wants him to promise that he will keep loving her even as she is getting older. Obviously, the young woman in this song implies that she wants him to make a commitment to “marriage” instead of just dating. She doesn’t want him to play with her, but she wants him to see her as a lifelong partner.

Chisato Moritaka sang this song on behalf of young and single Japanese women who want to stop dating but hope to marry their one and only for good.


If you are corresponding with someone now and are thinking about marriage in the future, the key to success is as follows.

  • Help to remove her fear and give her a sense of relief.
  • Visualize that both she and you are getting older and that you both still love each other and support each other.
  • Discuss your life plans together after retiring.

You will be able to move forward from the “Dating Phase” to the “Getting Married Phase” when you truly care about her and you take responsibility for both you and her.    



Chisato Moritaka is now 50 years old this year. She married a handsome actor and become a mom of their two children. Since her children are almost grown up, she has recently started singing again after being a housewife for 21 years.


She is getting older, but she has maintained her youthful appearance and still appears young and beautiful. Everybody admires their relationship and that her husband keeps loving her even though she is getting older.


Chisato Moritaka and her husband’s photos.


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Naoko Matsumoto is a certified personal matchmaker, founder and CEO of Traditional Japanese Matchmaker ( : the first international matchmaking company in Japan specializing in Japanese women. Naoko established TJM, a matchmaking company, in Minami Aoyama Tokyo in 1999. She has over 20 years experience in the matchmaking industry and in relationship coaching. TJM assists gentlemen all over the world and Japanese women in finding their right partners. TJM's mission is to connect happy men and women in order to create a global circle of happiness.


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