Have you heard about “The Rules”? Or have you read it before? It is a book written by Ellen Fein, and it is a book for women who want to find the right man.
Introducing some rules in “The Rules” book……
Don’t Meet Him Halfway or Go Dutch on a Date.
Stop Dating Him if He Doesn’t Buy You a Romantic Gift for Your Birthday or Valentine’s Day.
Rule #15: Don’t Rush into Sex and Other Rules for Intimacy
Rule #17: Let Him Take The Lead
Rule #34: Love Only Those Who Love You
The first 20 chapters are mostly about how to let him take the initiative first. So a woman who follows “The Rules” may keep herself cool even though she really likes you. Accordingly, she is supposed to be patient and pay attention to how much you are caring about her. The book states to its readers, who are mostly women, that if they follow the guidelines laid out in “The Rules”, your marriage will last forever with happiness.
Actually, I did not read this book before getting married, so I may not have been a “Rules Girls”. However, I have recently read this book and learned much about creating successful dating and marriage. I agree with many parts of “The Rules”.
Most Japanese women expect men to take the initiative, and yet many men tend to be very busy and often don’t think about how to entertain their dates. If you have never succeeded in your dating, reading “The Rules” book may help you in learning what women expect.
Since the series of “The Rules” were translated into the Japanese language, there are many Japanese women who are crazy about “The Rules.” If so, it is very likely that your candidates might be a follower of this book and is checking how you treat her.
If your goal is “Marriage”, learning women’s underlying psychology is the key to success.